The nemeton is a case where the strongest evidence for an institution is linguistic rather than archaeological, and where the vivid picture attached to it comes almost entirely from hostile outsiders.
The word. Nemeton is Gaulish for a sacred place, generally a clearing or grove. It is not attested by Celts describing their own religion, almost nothing is, but it is embedded in place names across the entire Celtic-speaking world: Drunemeton in Galatia in central Anatolia, where the Galatians held their council; Vernemeton in Britain; Nemetobriga in northwestern Spain; Medionemeton in Scotland; Nemetacum in Gaul. The Old Irish nemed carries the same sense.
That distribution is the argument. A word for a sacred enclosure appearing from Anatolia to Ireland means the institution travelled with the people who used it and was general rather than local. Place names are also relatively resistant to invention: nobody made these up later to support a theory.
The picture, and where it comes from. The familiar image, druids in a dark grove hung with offerings, the trees stained with blood, is not derived from that evidence. It comes from Roman writers describing enemies.
- Lucan's account of a grove near Massilia, in the Pharsalia, is a poem, written for effect, about a place the author had not seen, in a work whose purpose is not documentary.
- Pliny's famous paragraph on white-robed druids cutting mistletoe from an oak with a golden sickle stands alone and uncorroborated, a single passage, no supporting source, and a detail (a golden sickle, gold being too soft to cut with) that suggests ceremony reported at second hand or literary embellishment.
What archaeology supports. Iron Age Gaul had enclosed sanctuaries with deliberate deposits. At Gournay-sur-Aronde and Ribemont-sur-Ancre in northern France, excavation found weapons ritually destroyed, animal remains treated in structured ways, and human remains handled in a manner that is clearly ritual and clearly not ordinary burial, at Ribemont, an ossuary of human long bones arranged deliberately.
So: sanctuaries existed, and violent things were done in some of them. That is solid. It does not confirm Lucan's scene, and using the archaeology to authenticate the literature, a common move, is circular, since the literature is what tells us to look for that scene.
Modern Druidry is a separate matter and its practitioners generally say so. It took shape in the eighteenth century, from antiquarian speculation and Romantic literature, and its lineage runs through the Roman sources rather than through anything that survived from the practice those sources describe.